What can dating do for men in a country where some races of men are valued over others by most women?!  Many women have a preference of white men before showing interest for any other racial groupings—or ethnicity—which is not to blame white men, but it’s only to show a start to separation.  This separation that many women have in them may be because of things like: the way they were raised, past hurt from other races or ethnicity of men (that are not white), the men sharing their race or ethnicity hurting them, want for a better life, hate, and many other things. 


All white men are not chosen all the time by white women, but most of the white men are chosen by most race or ethnic groups of women first in greater numbers.  Think about this, in China white men are looked at as something special to marry when black men are looked at as horrible (there are videos to prove this).  I can go on with naming different countries outside of America to prove where these original thoughts come from, but I want to return to my focus on America.


The white men are the leading men in America for many women to desire and want—despite historical accounts of the way a particular race or ethnicity of men were treated hundreds of years ago by these white men.  The descendants of these white men have benefited from their father’s sadistic, savage, want for control, focused only on wealth, and horrible tactics in continuing to get what they want.  There were even white women that were in on this; and there were no regrets given by them.  Let me put this in big letters for the selective readers because I want to make this clear.  NOT ALL WHITE MEN AND WOMEN WERE THIS WAY—AND MANY ARE NOT THIS WAY NOW—BUT IT DOESN’T EXCUSE THE ONES THAT ARE—OR HAVE BENEFITED FROM THEIR DESCENDANTS PAST.  I’m mentioning the past for the reasons of why some have moved ahead of others while others play catch up, so to remove history will be disingenuous—or not fully truthful (which some don’t live in truth).


Because we can make our own choices, we can choose who to date or not.  A man’s attraction, height, color, size, career, and financial status are the main things women make their decisions by—after skin color.  Many white men I’ve spoken to understand this to be so, but there are those white men that are not chosen and they’re not happy about.  These white men have chosen to look for women abroad, to be celibate, become sexually uncaring, marry Asian women, and despise the dating market.  The anger growing in many of these white men because of their alienation away from the attractive white women is evident in many ways.


Black men have always been the second choice with any woman in America when it involves dating.  The big, scary, dark, and oversexualized (they will kill you with their penis) men have always been tagged as something as a threat.  This has been taught to many women all around the earth about black men and how an American Black man is the wrong choice. But, black American men have always adjusted to the situations given to them despite the dislike, disdain, or hate levied against them.  But, it has come to a point of black American being fed up with the way they are being treated also, but not in the way the white men are.


The other groups of men most likely will feel a way about the women that share their same ethnicity which is a reason for those men to look abroad also.  Many men outside of America are patriarchal which makes it tougher for American women to look for men in other countries.  Women are more emotional than men, and when it comes to Patriarchy to an American woman it is a no go for many of them.  We can investigate Arab nations, Asian nations, European nations, and African nations which will be filled with patriarchy.


Many men from different racial and ethnic groups have their gripes with the dating system in America, and men are taking their stance and the women are taking theirs which leaves a small number of both in the middle.  The ones in the middle are men wanting the women and will do anything to get which they are called Simps.  The women in the middle want men, but they are still on the fence as to what men they will choose from.  The middle people don’t fit on either side of the gripe and are thinking more about wanting to date or marry.


There is something brewing in men that is more powerful than old or rich men that have traveled years ago could have ever imagined which is men that are traveling abroad from all racial or ethnic groups.  The men that are traveling to these countries don’t want to date American women again, and they have had enough with dating in America.  These men are running through American women to get a passport faster and harder than a bowling ball through bowling pins.  This is bigger than years ago when the DVD’s were being made and uploaded to YouTube encouraging men to travel for a higher quality of women.  These men are looking for FEMININITY, TO BE WANTED, UNCOMPROMISING SEX, HAPPY WOMEN, FREELY GIVING, NO SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT, FAMILY FIRST, AND A SENSE OF BELIEF.  Men treat these women great when they find one like this, and she means more to him than an American woman ever could—or would. 


The years of women ingesting mental garbage from feminists, songs, talk shows, internet, movies, and religious organizations of them not needing men has created part of this divide.  The men growing up in homes hearing this from mothers, aunts, sisters, when they go with their mothers to salons on Saturdays, and the large list goes on.  But, now these same young men are adults that refuse to have the women in society treat them like useless sacrificial objects to be done worse than the men in the past.  The women can’t compete with these women other countries, so now they are name calling, attempting to shame, and other shit, but none of it is working.  And I’m glad it’s happening because like the Red Pill documentary has shed light on the way many men are losing out on things in America from the legal system on down.  


I say men are to travel and travel hard; and never regret feeling a sense of femininity from a foreign woman—especially if they’ve never felt it from a woman in America.  Getting past the things many American women have placed as blocks such as: race, physical appearance, financial status, political affiliation, and religious association. Some men may have bad intentions about women, but I know many men that want to really feel the love a woman.  I don’t care about your arguments and hate because I’ve heard all arguments; and they mean nothing to me.  MEN SHOULD JUST TRAVEL AND FEEL WHAT I’VE FELT FOR YEARS WHICH IS SOMETHING YOU DON’T GET FROM MOST WOMEN IN AMERICA.    
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Men are in fear in America from the what is happening with this divide between American men and women.  The divide has created a quiet movement amongst mainly men without children and some men with children—meaning, the responsible single fathers.  These men prefer to travel abroad for the women of their desires, women that America is erasing from its country.  The femininity, softness, caring, non-competing, richly spiritual, and family focused, are slowly being removed from America.  These women will soon be an afterthought in the next 40 years in this society if this is to continue.  For the people who will down play what we currently see in this society will only push my point further along.    
 
Women are not having children also, we can see this in the numbers especially in other countries.  There are countries like: Germany, Britain, Italy, and Spain, and this is hurting the women who want children because of the younger career driven women.  The economist.com and pewsocialtrends.org have done articles on these very points, which gives you the numbers on this topic.  The number of men having children has drastically fallen well below the numbers for women.  This can be because of societal issues with women, homosexuality, infertility, or just fear in men.  Fear?  Yes, the fear that the government will get involved and regulate things lawfully which will disrupt a man’s life.  The government can force a man to pay high amounts of child support which doesn’t benefit the child.  And there are times when the mother can become vindictive and continue to drag the father in court demanding more.  Fear is the focal point of why these men are traveling abroad, a large reason which can come from any form of fear.
 
I will focus on fear later, but I want to focus on what American women have said to many of these men who are now traveling abroad.  Over the last few years I had the pleasure to speak with hundreds of men about why they prefer women outside of America.  The stereotype that men are having babies and not taking care of them is showing to be a lie.  Most of the men I had the chance to talk to are not fathers and don’t want to be.  These men have been told they are too short, too tense, “lame,” nerdy, unattractive, TOO NICE, very spiritual, pushover, stingy, and the list goes on.  I can choose any one of these negative things and many American women will reply with something as to why it was told to them.  The Dr. Phil show with the 3 married couples is an example as to what many women say they want a certain thing but hate it when they receive it.  These men are being ridiculed by women and other men for traveling abroad, but these men have been verbally and sometimes physically abused by men and women to the point it doesn’t bother them.  YouTube and talk circles are proof of that, men are calling other men names for traveling abroad.  These men are internally weak in my opinion, because these men are saying the men should travel abroad because they are “lame,” but is this not better for the man that is complaining?!  The moment these “lame men” travel abroad this will leave the “non-lames” with the American women giving them easier access to the American women which makes the choosing process much easier.  Many women don’t seem to understand that shaming a man or saying “well, go find a woman in another country” doesn’t affect these men at all. The attitude, entitlement, competition, false accusations, and more, is the reason why these mean are traveling to different places.
 
The fears that have entered many of these childless men’s minds come from everything in this new society.  Accusations of rape, having babies by manipulative women, crazy women, a crazy child’s mother, court system coming into their lives, any many other things.  Why have a child when you can travel?  The fear of women allowing themselves to eventually follow the man hating clubs around America which is a major concern for them.  The subtle propaganda has now grown to a wide-open agenda that wants men to be with the men (not meaning strictly homosexual) and women to be with women socially and privately.  This is not to disparage homosexuality or “sexual choicers,”  so you can try pulling that card or use any type of minority to attack me which will be a “minority versus minority thing.”
 
To be continued……..                          

Throughout this entire book I’ve given men truth and some sort of philosophical science from my point of view.  In my next book I will explain to men how to sharpen their verbal and physical interactions with women which will prove their live greatly.  This book is to point out and give solutions to certain misinformed controls which have hurt the social, sexual, and natural relationship between men and women.  The man and woman interaction gap need to be filled to repair those that are not a part of the actual 1% (the people you never see), because the 90 plus percent are the ones who are having these problematic interactions.  Men and women have become mental soldiers fighting a daily work war which leaves no balance.  Think on this point, the man and woman both leave the house to fight a war on things like traffic, ideologies, racism, their child’s nature, and so on.  After an entire day of this, the two enter their homes (even if they live separately) with mental war scars that are never seen, but there is no feminine or masculine separation—none.  There is no balance coming from what nature prescribes to the human male and female species.  The home is being occupied by two masculine beings thinking there’s a separation when there is none, and years of that will only kill the relationship.  Wow!  Even I need to stop and think about this—as I write, because this is the truth of many of our societies which are being orchestrated by the “higher ups.”  With this war happening daily there can’t be any peace, and the war will only grow expeditiously.

Picture a white room with a glass door in the middle of the room, there is light almost invisible sign on the inside of the door, and a deadbolt lock sits on the door.  A man walks to the door to try out the key he has been given, but after trying the key in the lock he discovers it doesn’t work.  After finding out that it doesn’t work he exits the room to find the correct key, but when he returns there is another door in the room.  The new key he tries doesn’t work for the first door or second door, so he leaves the room again to grab another key in hopes that this will work.  The man returns to the room and sees there's another door added to the two, and the key doesn’t work for any of the doors.  It doesn’t stop, the entire room is being filled with doors—and not a single key works to any doors tested—after so many attempts it forces him to think.  A bulb goes off in his head, he leaves the room and returns with a locksmith bag, this bag has specialty tools for opening locks without keys.  It is a bag with every tool a man needs to open a door and he opens up every door—by picking the locks which enables him to go around the purpose of the deadbolt.
 
                Think about the example deeply, it answers the mind of a woman perfectly—once again.  This is the mind of many women, it answers the questions that many of you want to know about them.  The reason why this is example is used is, because women add more to what you think you’ve already figured out—but they will always add another door.  Many women present a thought, a want, or a personality to a man that is showing interest in them.  The man interacts with her in hopes to open things up about her, but he can’t get her to open up.  So, he leaves her to prepare himself for the next time they interact, but when they link again, he still doesn’t have the thing to open her up—but now she’s added another thing.  Do you see how this work?  This happens all the time to men who are not aware of this in women, for those men it’s confusing to them, and some men go crazy.

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Banana
            Think about a banana, the banana is full of essentials for the body that help maintain our health.  The pseudostem looks like a trunk and it is tightly packed, the leaves develop from the pseudostem and produce fruit.  The bud forms at the bottom, and the weight causes it to change direction and grow toward the ground.  Geotropism is the response to gravity, and it happens when the root grows within gravity.  But, negative geotropism is the growth against gravity.  The banana, which originated in the rain forest where there is little sunlight, found a way to grow toward the sun—and not topple over.
            I think men are in the same position as the banana at this point in society.  The boys are growing in the environment covered up by feminine ideology, so at some point when they come to age there is a way to grow amongst the cover up.  The boys have so much feminine shade around them, it’s to the point where they want to find the masculine light.  The curve needs to happen, the curve away from the darkness—a curve toward the light.  This light is the only way to get the boys (banana) to grow, and this needs to happen without being imbalanced, which the banana does as it holds a heavy load.  And it is a very heavy load to carry when a boy is trying to find the ways of the man amongst women. 
This proverbial light can come in a few ways for the boys to grow from.  The stand-up men dropping jewels and lending a helping hand can be a source of light.  The proper examples on social media that comes across their phones or computers can be a source of light.  The education of the boys is the at the highest source of light for them to grow.

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The spirit is a possessor, the mind, disposition, and attitude within a being.  It is the thing that controls a man, the focal point of where a man is internally.  This is the very thing that needs to be protected the most, because it controls everything in the body, and once it’s damaged—everything else is in danger.  Think, if you don’t have the courage (heart) to do things, but your body is healthy, and your energy is functioning normally.  The conflict between your energy and spirit will eventually happen.  Why? Because these things are connected, some days you feel up, and other days you are tired—and you don’t know why.  Think about many households in the ghetto and trailer park areas, and how some of the boys are being raised.  The boys are reared by women who control their every move in life.  The boys are being told when to eat, sleep, shut up, deal with their emotions, feel what they feel, and what religion to follow.  And it may be a sister, aunt, or grandmother to name a few.  Just think about that, for 18 years this happens at some of the most vulnerable times in a boy’s life—as he enters adulthood feeling subconsciously subservient to women.  It does something to him internally, something to his spirit, which can affect his subconscious in the future.  Some of these boys who are now men, might have thousands of feelings toward women, feelings that can affect their future interactions with women.  Some men can grow to show respect to women, some have hate, and others want to be women. These are most likely the three outcomes that can result from being in those environments—or possibly a 4th.  And the 4th can be a certain childlike acceptance of disrespect from a woman, which no man should allow—no matter the ethnicity of a woman.  It’s like a masochistic want that some men don’t realize they have within them, and many don’t know why.
 
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The subconscious is the depth of the mind that can’t be reached, but can affect one’s current thinking and feelings.  Think about a dark big box with objects floating around in it, and in the middle of this dark big box there is a glowing stationary object. This glowing stationary object occasionally encounters the floating objects—by touch—and these floating objects have magnets in them.  Well, let’s say this glowing stationary object has an occasional magnetic pull that occasionally occurs.  The floating objects have magnets in them that vary in size; some are weaker, and others are stronger.  So, when the glowing stationary object has a magnetic pull, the distance will determine which floating object gets pulled in.  Well, if the floating objects with a stronger magnet is equal in distance or closer than the floating object with a weaker magnet.  The floating object with the stronger magnet will make it to the glowing object in the middle first.  This is the same thing that happens with the subconscious when referring to triggers.  Just say you get angry about something minor, your energy levels will rise, and depending on the state of your subconscious, this will pull past incidences to your conscious mind.  Thus, allowing your conscious mind to trigger uncontrollable levels of emotion, because your energy is pulling heavier past emotions from your subconscious to your conscious mind. So, when your angry energy subsides, you won’t know why you became so angry from something so minor.  We see this in media every day, a person attacks a family member, an incident at the job, and so many other minor occurrences that become major.  The subconscious plays a major part in this.  The things that are heavier on your subconscious will be pulled into your conscious emotional state first.  ​

It's funny how the person who thinks outside of the box is the one that catches hell, but gets praise for perceived success.  And I can name so many transformative people who have done just that, but are not recognized for their thinking outside of what they were presented as children.  I think I was born to disturb the thinking of our society in a way that it can create hatred, anger, and many negative emotions that people direct to those who shape their own thinking.  I don't expect any of you to break your programming with my blogs, but I only ask for objective thinking. And if you can't do that, then I will make you angry, and yes, I intend to be very controversial and confrontational.  I think some things should be questioned, and there is nothing wrong with directing attention to HABITS. 
Why is there a "god bless" after a sneeze and not after a burp?  Why is the person who is being attacked ridiculed for reacting to the attack?  Why is the person who is brilliant refused recognition because they don’t have a college degree?
 
​The "god bless you” was brought in by Europeans, think about it.  The Indigenous natives didn't have a saying after someone sneezed, because they knew it was natural, but it became a normal response from Europeans.  When a person farts no one says, "god bless you”, burps, or coughs, there is nothing said.  But instead, the person doing these things will have to excuse themselves to the person or people they are around—these things are natural gasses being released from the body. The question of manners and courtesy is thrown out as shamming tactic for those who don't adhere to what society deems as courteous.  Now, I am not saying spread your germs or smell in closed areas, but I am saying, have courtesy, but have it without the extra—like a sneeze. 
 
The plague devastated European society because of the ferocious way it killed thousands of people with no cure.  The doctors had no way to stop it, even their medicines were no match for this plague along with wars, which created even more problems.  Religion was the last hope for this plague, so the priests and nuns were called in as a last hope.  As the dying person is prayed over, many times they would sneeze, and the priests made the people seem like that was a sign given that the person is ridding the body of their illness.  So, after every sneeze there was a "god bless" you that followed, and from then on it became a habitual response. 
 
​Well, forget your "god bless" because I don't say it, and nor do I need it, this is one less thing I must be concerned with in my everyday life.  People that say they are fed up with this politically correct society, but those same people don't agree with my stance, and they don't know why they say, "god bless you" also.  Even the ones claiming to be atheist say this, that's funny.
 
​The college degree, tattoos, body focus, religion, and so many things, will get my attention as I grow in my BLOGGING.