Men are in fear in America from the what is happening with this divide between American men and women. The divide has created a quiet movement amongst mainly men without children and some men with children—meaning, the responsible single fathers. These men prefer to travel abroad for the women of their desires, women that America is erasing from its country. The femininity, softness, caring, non-competing, richly spiritual, and family focused, are slowly being removed from America. These women will soon be an afterthought in the next 40 years in this society if this is to continue. For the people who will down play what we currently see in this society will only push my point further along.
Women are not having children also, we can see this in the numbers especially in other countries. There are countries like: Germany, Britain, Italy, and Spain, and this is hurting the women who want children because of the younger career driven women. The economist.com and pewsocialtrends.org have done articles on these very points, which gives you the numbers on this topic. The number of men having children has drastically fallen well below the numbers for women. This can be because of societal issues with women, homosexuality, infertility, or just fear in men. Fear? Yes, the fear that the government will get involved and regulate things lawfully which will disrupt a man’s life. The government can force a man to pay high amounts of child support which doesn’t benefit the child. And there are times when the mother can become vindictive and continue to drag the father in court demanding more. Fear is the focal point of why these men are traveling abroad, a large reason which can come from any form of fear.
I will focus on fear later, but I want to focus on what American women have said to many of these men who are now traveling abroad. Over the last few years I had the pleasure to speak with hundreds of men about why they prefer women outside of America. The stereotype that men are having babies and not taking care of them is showing to be a lie. Most of the men I had the chance to talk to are not fathers and don’t want to be. These men have been told they are too short, too tense, “lame,” nerdy, unattractive, TOO NICE, very spiritual, pushover, stingy, and the list goes on. I can choose any one of these negative things and many American women will reply with something as to why it was told to them. The Dr. Phil show with the 3 married couples is an example as to what many women say they want a certain thing but hate it when they receive it. These men are being ridiculed by women and other men for traveling abroad, but these men have been verbally and sometimes physically abused by men and women to the point it doesn’t bother them. YouTube and talk circles are proof of that, men are calling other men names for traveling abroad. These men are internally weak in my opinion, because these men are saying the men should travel abroad because they are “lame,” but is this not better for the man that is complaining?! The moment these “lame men” travel abroad this will leave the “non-lames” with the American women giving them easier access to the American women which makes the choosing process much easier. Many women don’t seem to understand that shaming a man or saying “well, go find a woman in another country” doesn’t affect these men at all. The attitude, entitlement, competition, false accusations, and more, is the reason why these mean are traveling to different places.
The fears that have entered many of these childless men’s minds come from everything in this new society. Accusations of rape, having babies by manipulative women, crazy women, a crazy child’s mother, court system coming into their lives, any many other things. Why have a child when you can travel? The fear of women allowing themselves to eventually follow the man hating clubs around America which is a major concern for them. The subtle propaganda has now grown to a wide-open agenda that wants men to be with the men (not meaning strictly homosexual) and women to be with women socially and privately. This is not to disparage homosexuality or “sexual choicers,” so you can try pulling that card or use any type of minority to attack me which will be a “minority versus minority thing.”
To be continued……..